think i did mention before...
dont know where...but anyway...
this idea came to my head again ytd nite....
all of us have different personalities....
+ve and -ve sides...
well....no one is perfect thou...
but at least...we try to be more perfect...
so in that way...it means...to improve the -ve sides...
and maintain or further enhance the +ve sides....
using "thats my character" as an excuse to ignore those -ve side....
is....annoying....
wtever -ve things u do...
always can use that as a cover up excuse....
how ridiculous it is....
ppl might claimed that they dont know wt to improve...
well...i do believe there are always ppl close to u....
who can let u know...it is just the matter of...
whether u wana listen or not...
the crucial bit is whether u have an open minded to listen...
and digest...
before building all those high brick wall....
and trying to explain the "theory" of ur action....
actually....no need to explain...
wt u do to make wt others feel is wt it matters...
so basically...
"Shut up, listen, and digest"
understand other's feeling while standing in their position...
that helps...
some ppl might say...
if they are close frd to me...
they should be more compromising..
and understand wtever i do....
true....but ppl who leave u with those -ve characters exist...
and do nth abt it...
do u think they are really the close frds of urs?
they just dont care....the you in deep inside...
they only care abt is whether u are free this Sat....
or in ur mindset...
ppl who can cherish the happy moments with u...
hanging around, go clubbing and drink like mad...
those are ur close frds?
i do agree abt compromising...
but ur frds are also humans...
they have feelings...
they will get hurt....
they feel the sadness of urs when u are depressing as well....
but that doesnt mean they are the one u can express ur anger or anxiety to....
if so...it sounds having a huge threshold level will just allow u to be more...aggressive...
having a high capacity =/= have to suffer more from your emotions....
or else...being ur close frds sounds like a disaster more than anything cheerful...
how ridiculous it is....
