Balance

bet this semester...
is the one with highest frequency of having a meeting...
apart from academic ones...
i got my own society's meeting...
yeah...pretty tiring...
but did learn a lot....

there is not a definite Black or White answer while deciding matters...
everything got their +ve and -ve side...
the best way to sort out the problem is to....
get a balance between two ans....
get the most +ve factors from each side....
in order to generate a more...macro. view of solution....

and we simply dont run everything with just one rule....
things changes...and based on all the factors happening around us...
the balance point changes....
thats call: flexibility....
not a dump shit just standing at one spot...
and claimed that they got "SAY"....
by not listening to others...then do stuff on their own....
if human can live or work alone like this...
it would have be happening for ages...

besides...one thing i do wana thanks BO...
once you told me...
"no one has to behave depends on ur mood....
esp dont release ur anger to ur frds..."
this sentence did strike my brain that time....
true thou....
frds...should be the one closest to you...
how on earth u will be mad at them?
is it simply becoz u know they got a higher capacity with ur behaviour?
if thats the case...
then it sounds like bullying....
(bullying ur frds? wt the hell is that?)
or perhaps...
you just want to show off ur anger...
and ask for someone to care abt u?
well....how many ppl will come bk for u after u kicked them away?
probably that will be so called a "test" for ur frds...
whether they are true frds....or not...
but....actually...is it necessary to run such a test on frds?
doubted....and on the other way round...
would u like to be treated by ppl who are close to u?
will you feel insulted? or humiliated?
well...sometimes...it is good to think matters on other people's feeling...
before blaming ppl....
no one is perfect in this world...
but at least they know they got things to improve...and work on it...
thats...good enough....
and....i cant see the point of hurting someone else becos you get hurt urself...
honestly...why on earth has to create more problems while u got loads of problems already...
anyway...you did change my mindset BO...
thanks!